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A cheating wife is not as uncommon to find in today’s digital world as we communicate using many forms including social media, text messaging, online forums, Emails and even through online dating sites. Within the click of a button anyone can instantly be connected to a new world where they can pretend to be anything, including single (and looking).  As technology and communication increases this allows us to communicate with virtually anyone, in any number of ways with the only sign is some type alert including a chime, bell or whistle. These alerts are nearly impossible to identify whom your wife is speaking with without actually reading her messages or questioning her.

Some husbands are naturally suspicious yet if you are trusting and find yourself being suspicious, there may be reason to trust your instinct.  It is impossible to tell if your wife is cheating simply because of a change in her behavior. Having an extra-marital affair is hard work, as your wife will have to juggle time between you, the kids, their job, and also their lover.  This is what makes your wife generate a pattern of activities, as a cheating wife will go to great lengths to hide the affair as the cost of getting caught are so great and when affairs come to light, lives can be ruined and relationships destroyed.


Many husbands do not wish to admit that their wife is unfaithful and overlook warning signs simply to save face and keep their peace of mind. Unfortunately, this only makes the situation worse and effects everyone involved.

Common signs of an Unfaithful Wife:

  • Does your wife spend a significant amount of time at the office or out with the girl’s?

It is natural for us to sometimes spend extra time at the office. However, if your wife does this every day, or always has a reason to disappear on Sundays and holidays you should be alarmed. The easiest way to know if she is really working is to stop by her office unexpectedly. A surprise coffee or dinner would show as sweet gesture if she is indeed working very hard, and this is also the best way to validate her story as to where she is.  On the other hand wives can also use their friends as their excuse as well. If your wife more time with her friends on vacations and overnight trips, then with her husband you must be wary.

  • Have you noticed reduced intimacy within your relationship?

The first sign of this is if your wife commonly wears shapely fitted clothing and sexy lingerie but doesn’t want to make love with you.   Women associate intimacy with an emotional relation to an individual. If your wife begins to avoid kissing you or even showing public displays of affections such as holding your hand in public, it may be possible that your wife has start an emotional relation with someone else.

  • Is your wife spending a significant amount of time on the phone, internet, or texting?

Pay attention to how your wife reacts to incoming phone calls and messages. If she is receiving them at off hours or always tries to avoid you when she is in a conversation there might be something fishy going on.   Also, if your wife constantly has her cell phone at her side, never lets you touch, or spends a lot of time on the phone after a conversation has ended with someone she may be trying erases her messages and call logs.

Fortunately in today’s digital world there are many ways to find out if your wife is cheating on you or not. Tracking software can easily be installed to see what your wife doing online, as well as keeping track of the phone bills and credit card statements will help you determine what is going on. Keep in mind social networks & smartphones are quickly becoming the preferred methods for planning and pursuing affairs.

The links below will provide you with information in regards to evidence acquisition techniques that may work for you.

Please remember to never confront your wife about infidelity unless you are absolutely positive. Serious consideration is needed especially if separation or divorce are options.